According to Jagad Guru the Goal of LUST is To experience the height of sensual enjoyment, which is the sexual orgasm. But that doesn't satisfy a person because the person is actually spiritual in essence. He is by nature spiritual soul, non-material. Therefore, no amount of sensual or material pleasure will satisfy him and make him happy within himself. There is also an apex or a union in love ---union with the Supreme Being. The same desire for union is there in spiritual life. While the materialist seeks sexual union, the self realized soul seeks union with God. If we look at it from the up-down angel, lust is the inclination for union going downward to the various senses while love is this natural inclination for union going upward to the Supreme Lord. In other words, lust is not something that you can have at the same time as love. Lust is an opposite in the sense that it's the clouded or perverted manifestation of love.
For me you can have Lust at the same time as love. Because for me as you love a person you will give everything your heart, body and soul. There's nothing wrong when you feel Lust I think...that my own opinion what about you you can have comments...
